Friday, September 20, 2019

I Needed #1's Help


#5  Help From Family Is Good 

When my Partner (Father In Law – FIL) injured himself in LA, I told you our #1 son went to stay with him the first couple of weeks.  After those two weeks, it was my turn to go.  Never in a million years would I think I would spend the next 5 months in LA with him during rehab. 

The very first night, I got to LA I arrived at dark (cheapest flights).  Now being an adult male, I had a sense of security about me that probably my wife wouldn’t have.  I also had a sense of caution about the people.  TV doesn’t always portray LA as a friendly town.  I had to get from LAX to UCLA Medical Center.  Luckily, there were plenty of travel options for me to choose.   I remember being very hungry and the first place I came too by the hospital was an In -N- Out Burger joint.  I bet you know what I did.  I gorged myself and felt so much better.

My #1 had left me very specific instructions upon arrival at the hospital as to where my FIL was located.  It was very late, and I checked into the ICU where everyone was as sweet and nice as I was told by my #1.  They had a chair in my FIL room where I could stretch out and sleep.  I took advantage of that immediately as I was beat.  Early morning brought rounds for the doctors, who #1 had told me about them.  The doctors proceeded to explain to me and my FIL’s condition.  It was heartbreaking as I knew then, a long road awaited. 

Mantra was needed immediately – “I got this with some help”

Daddio

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